Amen. I very nearly gave up ringing at the PB5 point, once it became clear I'd have to stop using bell numbers and pretty much start from scratch, using places/ropesight. Ropesight in particular was something I really struggled with, I'll always remember the feeling of being totally overwhelmed trying to simultaneously dodge properly, remember the line, count places & spot which bell I was over.
Fortunately (?) my tower doesn't have enough experienced ringers to ring PB5, for method ringing so we use Minimus methods + 2 covers. Some people who won't take the armbands off are still ringing by bell number, but the ones who understand why numbers are a dead end are ringing by places/ropesight as on 4 it's pretty much as easy to do that as it is to remember the numbers. Our hope is that once they have solid Minimus places/ropesight, stepping up to 5 then 6 will be an extension of what they can already do, rather than a big leap requiring the simultaneous acquisition of multiple new skills.
I also think you are right about motivating people by dragging them to the sunlit uplands. QPs are one way but we don't have a band that's capable of them. What I've done instead for the furthest on of our "second wave" is to get them to ring Oxford TB on the simulator. They'd already been learning to TB Hunt on the sim, and they already knew Bastow front work. I didn't show them the blue line in advance and they were using the simulator's moving ringers, "follow this bell" and the blue line down the side to provide as much support as possible. I explained that what they were going to ring was basically TB Hunt but without dodges at the lead (so easier
:wink:) , a chunk of Bastow treble work bracketed by dodges with the treble, and some bits where they plain hunted with turnarounds in the middle, they should just ring and I'd tell them what to do next as we went. Much to my surprise & delight, they got through on the first attempt.
Big grins when they stood the bell, followed by huge wide eyes when I showed them the blue line of what they'd just rung. They completely realise that there's a lot of work between that and ringing it "for real" and unaided, but it showed them that they could physically ring something they would have baulked at if they'd been told to go away and learn the blue line. It was hugely motivational for them and what was a seemingly impossible dream has become a target.
We don't have to reach ringing the way it was taught 50 years ago, and when it comes to bell handling, we usually don't (thank you ART!). But we persist on trying to teach methods in a way that has always resulted in the majority of ringers either stagnating, or giving up. With the age profile and numbers of fresh starters, that approach is no longer sustainable.