visiting ringers at Service ringing I did follow the guidance Philip, If I wanted I could've grabbed the tenor and refused to budge but because I am generally a respectful person I asked the RM very kindly if I could take the tenor for the last set of rounds and instead of saying something along the lines of " yes of course you can" or "not this time but you can when the bells are back" he bluntly told me no because "he" had to place the band and even after I'd explained that I'd had experience with heavy tenors he sarcastically retorted "oh I bet you have" as if he didn't actually believe me. I will in due course contact the tower captain to discuss the matter further but I have already decided that this will be my one and only visit to Bedford, I don't usually say this about towers I've been to but this has left a sour taste in the mouth and I find it especially sad that this had to be my memory of them given that a friend of mine used to ring there in the early 70s